January 22, 2026
— by
Capt. Dario Gonzalez

When Buying a Boat, Don’t Fall in Love with the One You Don’t Need

Motor yachts docked at a marina during sunset, illustrating the boat buying decision process.

When that long-awaited moment finally arrives and your budget allows you to buy your first boat, it’s essential to be very clear about which boat actually fits you best. And the truth is, most of the time, it’s not the one you like the most.

It’s very common to fall in love with a boat that doesn’t align with how you’ll really use it, enjoy it, or afford it. This often happens when a friend invites you out on their boat for a day. Everything goes perfectly; the weather is great, the experience is amazing, and you think:

“Wow, this is the boat I want.”

But buying a boat isn’t for one perfect day.
It’s a long-term decision.

Think Beyond Emotions

Another common situation is loving speed and assuming a racing-style boat is the right choice for you. In reality, you’ll probably have very few opportunities to actually go fast, because most of the time you’ll be boating with your family, small children, and sometimes even grandma on board.

That’s why, when buying a boat, it’s important to think calmly and realistically, without letting emotions take over.

Start With Your Real Budget

The first thing you need to be very clear about is your budget, not only to buy the boat but also to maintain it. If the purchase creates a big financial strain, it will always negatively affect how much you enjoy it.

A simple rule closely tied to this is:

Toys should be paid for in cash.

Center console boat showcased at a boat show, illustrating how features and layout matter more than first impressions when buying a boat.

How Will You Actually Use Your Boat?

Ask yourself some honest questions:

  • How many times a month or year will I really use my boat?
    This helps determine whether it should stay in the water or be kept in storage.
  • How often will I sleep on it?
    This will tell you whether you truly need a cabin, a bathroom, and a galley.

Many people buy boats with all these amenities and barely use them—yet they still have to maintain and pay for them.

That’s why the market offers boats known as Day Boats, designed with spacious decks that make it easy to move around and enjoy short trips from your marina or home dock.

Match the Boat to Your Lifestyle

Choosing a boat is closely connected to the type of activities and watersports you enjoy. You should consider:

  • Outboard vs. inboard engines
  • Gasoline vs. diesel
  • Cruising, fishing, watersports, or relaxing with family

All these decisions, made at the time of purchase, are what truly determine how much you’ll use and enjoy your boat.

A Real-Life Lesson

To illustrate this point, here’s a funny anecdote.

A colleague of mine loved racing boats. He’s a tall guy, weighing around 220 pounds, and decided to buy a competition-style boat that included a small cabin he thought he might use someday.

The problem was simple:

He couldn’t fit through the cabin door.

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